February 25-March 1, 2015
Written February 26+
Dear Diary, Friends, and Families, This
is a grandparents' diary. We will be reporting on our
four-day babysitting job with Ava and Sam. Every grandparent
likes grandkid memories and this is how we do it -- a diary in our long
line of diaries (16 years and counting.)
After a quick (and non-emergency) stop at one of our most-frequented Fresno locations,
Kaiser Medical Center, we headed out on the three-hour drive to Los
Gatos. This drive is pretty boring, but at least there was no fog
and we never have to worry about snow. Do you believe that people
actually live in climates where snow is a months-long problem?
Why?
Gabby's
house was as welcoming as usual and within minutes Gigi and I were
drafted into a game of Bingo with Sam and Ava. We never remember
who wins or loses, but there is always fun. This will be a good
stay, I'm sure. (They always are, actually.) We will be
alone with the kids from Thursday through Sunday, when Gabby and Mamal
run off to Dallas for some sort of family business meeting. They
get a break and we should get a workout.
Kids nowadays have busy lives, and Sam and Ava are no exceptions.
We have seen them at swimming lessons, soccer lessons, and now we
watched tennis lessons. Ava is only five, until Saturday, and Sam
is just three years old. I'm not sure the technical points of
fine tennis are getting across, but it was clear they had fun.
The class started with calisthenics and a running lap or two.
From there it was a check of equipment, socializing, and celebration after a good hit.
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They had fun. We had fun. A good start. From here it
was a noisy pizza dinner and off to bed, tired. (Me more than the
kids.) Tomorrow?
Thursday
was a completely "normal" day. Gabby delivered the kids to school
before she and Mamal ran to the airport for the flight to Texas.
That meant Gigi and I had pick-up duty, Sam at pre-school and Ava at
her after-kindergarten daycare. From there it was play at home,
dinner, some quiet time, baths, and bedtime.
Pick up at school
Play at home and then dinner
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At the end of the day, I'm not sure who was more tired, kids or grandparents.
Friday
morning, Marianne took Ava to school before visiting with one of her
long-time friends, Adrienne. That left Sam and me on our won, so
we started with a bagel and muffin at Noah's Bagels. From there
it was exercise at Oak Meadow Park, a local favorite.
Boys out for breakfast and some park time
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After Sam and I collected Marianne and Ava,
we all had lunch at home and it was off to the big event of the day:
The San Jose Children's Discovery Museum. We had not been there before
and we were impressed with the wide range of kid-friendly activities.
Lots of things on Woz Way
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The kids' favorite? The vegetable store and kitchen, just like at home!
Saturday.
Rain. Even in California. Good for the skiers and farmers,
but a bump in any plans to take grandkids to parks. No matter,
we'll have fun just hanging around.
Both
kids woke up about 7. Sam wandered out to find Opa and then just
wanted to be held. When he wakes up, he does it slowly.
Nice for Opa and Gigi. Meanwhile, Ava was in her room, reading
and telling stories to her dolls and secret friends. Eventually,
the offer of Gigi's palachinta pancakes got the kids up, dressed and
ready for the day.
On
our rainy Saturday, ready for the day meant indoor play, something the
two of them are actually quite good at. Sometimes Ava bosses Sam,
and sometimes Sam takes over, but they have remarkable problem-solving
skills when situations arise between them. Today, they had the
added advantage of joining up on a session of Opa-is-a-camel, an
activity that caused lots of laughter among the riders and a few groans
by the camel. They do give me exercise.
Once I was completely worn out, we shifted to bingo, lunch, and a bit of TV-time.
Then came one of my favorites: quiet time. This means Ava goes to
her room and continues telling stories to her dolls and friends.
Sam walks off to his room, looks at his trucks, mumbles a few stories
for HIS stuffed animals, and then crawls up into bed for a peaceful
rest. He no longer gets a "nap", but he does seem to enjoy quite
time like his big sister, and then he falls asleep anyway.
Meanwhile, Gigi quietly reads and shops on-line while Opa follows Sam's
example and falls asleep, just a bit.
With the rain and hail still coming down, we made our out-of-the-house
event a dinner out. We chose Mo's in Campbell because they
offered a chance at a second breakfast. Pancakes are great cool
weather comfort food!
Full and comforted, we headed home for baths, story time, and bedtime.
I wonder if Ava and Sam will remember the fun of our rainy Saturday,
but I'm sure Gigi and I will. Thanks to Gabby and Mamal for
giving us the chance, and thanks for raising such fun kids!
Sunday.
I started with diary-time at Starbucks, a common practice. This
also allows the house to wake up on its own schedule. Everyone
needed to prepare for a busy day.
The
big day-event for the kids was a birthday party. Since they would
be surrounded by their normal gang of friends and parents, we dropped
them off and enjoyed our own lunch date. When we came back, the
balloon lady was just starting, so we waited and met some of the other
parents and even a grandparent or two.
After all this excitement, we needed to prepare for mom and dad coming
back. We fed the kids, once the candy and cake wore off.
They both needed baths to wash off sticky frosting. When Gabby
and Mamal came through the door, it was all hugs and kisses.
Nice.
On Monday morning, everything returned to normal. Mamal went off
to work and the kids got in Gabby's car for school drop-off. Gigi
and I headed north for a week on our own, but that's another story.
John and Marianne
PS: House projects. We always seem to have house projects.
Here is our record of the current effort, a small update to our
laundry room. We want to remember this stuff, even if it's not of
general interest!
Beginning: Cheap, mismatched cabinets. Exposed piping using up precious floor space. Generally ugly.
Demolition and placement of pipes, vent, and new electrical circuits back into the wall.
Next, the wall was closed and the cabinets went in.
All we need now is paint and the counter top -- tasks planned to be done while we are babysitting.
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